Behavior is the distinct level in the evolution of human being. Understanding person’s body language or their attitude towards you can help you judge a person. However you need to be a good observer to judge someone. As being judgmental is also not good, if you can’t get hold of the right thing. With an extra attentiveness you can notice the signals that people send out to you.
But believe in yourself if people treat you bad, don’t be the same to them as they were to you. As it is truly said that “What goes around comes around”. God is always with you during your bad times. Never doubt the power of prayer. Emotions are not bad behavior. Emotions don’t hurt anyone, rather the rude and ignorant behavior of someone leads to emotion. You can never win the world by hurting others sentiment. Always remember one loyal friend is worth a thousand relative. I know it is easy to say but difficult to follow that don’t let people play with your emotions. Don’t forget what people did to you with their betrayals, will help you grow. Forgiveness can start with forgiving yourself for being bitten by a soulless zombie. But don’t forgive people who made your life hell, but don’t be rude to them the way they did to you. There is a difference between you and them. Don’t stoop to their level. It is a behavior which is endorsed and directed by the mind. You can’t understand people’s behavior before you know about their psychological craze. If a person hurts you once it is not deliberate, but if it often then be rest assured that it is deliberate. So even if you try to sort the matter by speaking out to them, they may act innocent to convince you but don’t get carried away as they will be the one to hurt you again.
“The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another”, rightly said by William James. My moral in life is very simple: You treat me good and I’ll definitely treat you better. Don’t try to impress anyone. You are not created for everyone to like you. Just be yourself and the right one will cling to you. The best people all have some kind of scar.It is better to experience moment of discomfort in the achievement of your dreams than to be comfortable without accomplishing your dreams.